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Peggy Davenport's avatar

Wow. Thank you Max for sharing - what an amazing story of an extraordinary relationship - so moving and so inspiring.

And TY Sophie too! ❤️

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Sophie's avatar

❤️❤️❤️my pleasure

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Madeleine O’Hagan's avatar

A beautiful tribute by an equally Truly Honest and Good person 🤍

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Sophie's avatar

🥺❤️

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Beryl Meiron's avatar

Max, this is incredibly loving and insightful. Alan was truly a man who loved learning, medicine and family. Dan and I, too, would receive beautiful, long, detailed emails recounting trips, including meals, museum sightings and musings. He would regale us with great stories about family, past and present. He adored you and your siblings, and that fatherly love will never die. XOXO ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Sophie's avatar

❤️❤️❤️

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Livvy Barnett's avatar

Moo this is everything. I feel like I learned so much about your dad through this piece and feel blessed to have a more well-formed understanding of him and your relationship. This is such a beautiful essay; you captured it all so perfectly. Love you so much ❤️

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Sophie's avatar

We ❤️moo🐮

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Ellen Gendler, MD's avatar

Alan was one of a kind. He never spared a detail. Never stopped being curious about literally everything. Never judged. Always willing to help a friend. A doctor AND a businessman---a rare combination, for sure. He is missed by so many of us.

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Sophie's avatar

💗💗💗

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caroline's avatar

This was so lovely and touching, Max 💛

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Sophie's avatar

TY hen❤️he’s #grateful for this comment and the giant box of peppermint tea

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Dan Shapiro's avatar

Beautiful. To know your father was to love your father. Incredibly special and unique person.

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Sophie's avatar

Agreed🫶

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Téa DiPrima's avatar

❤️

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Maria Bowe's avatar

So beautiful, Max! Loved reading this 💙 thinking of you today!

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Sophie's avatar

🫶🫶🫶🫶

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Jenna Rice's avatar

Just beautiful. I resonate so deeply with how Max described his grief. Thank you for sharing his story 🤍

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Sophie's avatar

So glad it resonated ❤️❤️❤️thinking of you

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Paul Barnett's avatar

Max, that was beautiful. Alan gave you another gift which you are so perfectly suited for - sharing that love of people as they are, with warmth, compassion and empathy. The world can always use more of that. Pauli

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Sophie's avatar

🫶🫡

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Helene Rosenthal's avatar

Wow, I love everything about this.

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Sophie's avatar

Me too💗💖💞

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Hannah L.'s avatar

Beautifully put. Thanks for sharing such beautiful facts about your dad. People who genuinely just like people and do something with this passion don’t come by that often. So sorry for your loss.

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Sophie's avatar

❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Linda's avatar

Max you are a gifted writer, truly. An absolutely beautiful tribute.

❤️

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Sophie's avatar

Agreed!!!!

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Katherine Bell's avatar

This was beautiful <3

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Lawrence Yeo's avatar

"We were conversationalists. And unlike other activities, we had nowhere to go and nowhere to be—no tee time, no tip-off, no movie schedule breathing down our necks. When we were together, time wasn’t something to beat. Time was our ally. It was something to stretch out, to settle into."

So beautiful. Thanks for publishing this piece and sharing it with us, Max. It feels like the warmth of your dad is able to live on through your writing.

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